Friday 21 August 2009

The Blessings of Thankfulness

Yes, the blog is back after a Summer break. Articles will now be posted at more regular intervals. This week, we will be looking at a simple principle that can really change your life: thankfulness.

"Thank you," two small words that make a huge difference. Whether it is by email, by phone or even with a small gift, people love to be appreciated. However, in our rush to "get things done" we often miss small but nonetheless crucial ways of showing people we care.

Maybe our attitude would be different if you we realise how much thankfulness benefits us, as well as others. As selfish as it might seem, people tend to be more apt to help others when they can see it is in their interests too. If we knew just how amazing thankfulness is, maybe we might thank people more often.

Well then, what are the benefits of thankfulness?

The first benefit is by far the most important. The Bible tells us that we enter God's presence with thankfulness in our hearts. As we demonstrate our gratefulness to God, we are able to experience more of who He is. This is simple enough to understand: who would you rather be around, those who recognise your efforts and are truly grateful or those who take you for granted?

Another benefit is that thankfulness opens doors. By appreciating the little things people do, you create a connection with them. After all, who would you rather talk to, the person who notices the difference you make or the person who couldn't careless.

There is, of course, one last benefit. Being thankful gives you a better outlook on life. At a time when there are so many negative messages going around, the simple acts of noticing the good things people do and giving appreciation keeps you positive and ready to see the good things that are going on.

So there you are. Go looking for things to be thankful for. Go looking for people to appreciate. You'll be surprised at the real difference it makes.